Why does just about every person in a toxic relationship with a narcissist ask themselves 'Am I the narcissist?' Why? Because in every toxic relationship, the victim is baited into reacting through 'Reactive Abuse' and DARVO to make them think that they're the abuser.
In this episode we take a look at that question that nearly every victim of narcissistic abuse/domestic violence asks themselves, and we answer it in detail.
I unpack....
* What is Reactive Abuse?
* What is D.A.R.V.O.?
* How does a narcissist use reactive abuse and DARVO to make you think you're the abuser?
* How do we tell the true abuser from the victim when they both appear to be engaging in toxic behaviours?
* Why/how does the narcissist make outsiders believe they are the victim?
* Does a narcissist ask themselves if they're a narcissist?
* How can we educate others on concepts such as DARVO and Reactive Abuse to reduce the numbers of victims getting restraining Orders against them?
You can book a counselling session online appointment with me, or make enquiries around hiring me to speak at your event here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on Instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Until the next episode, REMEMBER......
You are worthy of soooo much love.
And you are certainly worthy of a whole lot more than Fake Love and Flying Monkeys.
Nova 💜
Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
https://linktr.ee/novagibson
And follow on these platforms to discuss each and every episode!
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Why does just about every person in a toxic relationship with a narcissist ask themselves 'Am I the narcissist?' Why? Because in every toxic relationship, the victim is baited into reacting through 'Reactive Abuse' and DARVO to make them think that they're the abuser.
In this episode we take a look at that question that nearly every victim of narcissistic abuse/domestic violence asks themselves, and we answer it in detail.
I unpack....
* What is Reactive Abuse?
* What is D.A.R.V.O.?
* How does a narcissist use reactive abuse and DARVO to make you think you're the abuser?
* How do we tell the true abuser from the victim when they both appear to be engaging in toxic behaviours?
* Why/how does the narcissist make outsiders believe they are the victim?
* Does a narcissist ask themselves if they're a narcissist?
* How can we educate others on concepts such as DARVO and Reactive Abuse to reduce the numbers of victims getting restraining Orders against them?
You can book a counselling session online appointment with me, or make enquiries around hiring me to speak at your event here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on Instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Until the next episode, REMEMBER......
You are worthy of soooo much love.
And you are certainly worthy of a whole lot more than Fake Love and Flying Monkeys.
Nova 💜
Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
https://linktr.ee/novagibson
And follow on these platforms to discuss each and every episode!
Facebook group -
https://www.facebook.com/groups/822368872683676/?ref=share
Instagram (@novas_narcissistabuse_recovery)
Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert)
TikTok (@nova_gibson)
YouTube (@novagibson_)
Youtube
@novagibson_