Fake Love and Flying Monkeys
A Toxic relationship and Fake love looks real—until it destroys you.
Welcome to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, the podcast that exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation. Hosted by Nova Gibson, leading trauma-informed counsellor and Director of Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling, this podcast is your guide to breaking free from the confusion, fear, and self-doubt that come with being entangled with a narcissist.
In every episode, Nova draws from years of experience working with survivors to explore the complex, often covert tactics used in emotionally abusive relationships—from gaslighting, triangulation, and the silent treatment to smear campaigns and intermittent reinforcement.
Whether you're struggling with a narcissistic partner, parent, boss, or friend, Fake Love and Flying Monkeys gives you the tools and knowledge to understand the abuse, trust your instincts, and reclaim your power—even if the narcissist has never been formally diagnosed.
This is more than a podcast—it’s a lifeline.
You’ll get:
Clear explanations of narcissistic behaviour patterns
Practical strategies for setting boundaries and detaching
Real talk about the emotional rollercoaster of trauma bonding
Validation, clarity, and a path toward healing from narcissistic abuse
If you've ever felt trapped in a relationship that chips away at your self-worth, this podcast will help you name it, face it, and finally break free.
You’re not alone, and you’re not crazy. You’re in the fog of narcissistic abuse—and Nova is here to help guide you out.
Visit https://www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au/
for more support and resources.
It’s time to expose the fake love, silence the flying monkeys, and rewrite your story.
Fake Love and Flying Monkeys
Narcissism at Home, Work and Everywhere else: Spot the signs
Think it's just romantic partners who can be narcissistic? Think again.
In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I’m diving deep into how narcissism shows up in all types of relationships—not just the romantic ones. That charming coworker? The controlling parent? The friend who always plays the victim? Yep, narcissism can hide in plain sight, and you need to know what to look for.
From coercive control in the workplace to gaslighting in families, we’re breaking down the red flags of narcissistic abuse and how it can completely distort your reality—no matter who it’s coming from. You’ll hear real examples, practical strategies, and straight talk to help you finally see through the manipulation and protect your peace.
🔍 Topics we cover:
Subtle signs of coercive control in any relationship
Why narcissists don’t always look like villains
How they twist your words, rewrite history, and make you doubt yourself
Why they act so differently in public vs private
How to break free and rebuild your self-worth
Whether you're dealing with a toxic parent, a partner, a boss, or a so-called “friend”, this episode is your survival guide to spotting narcissistic abuse before it drains you dry.
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Please remember the information in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy is general and strictly the opinions of the host.
Nova xx